A Little Room before You Answer
My dear son,
Even when anger rises suddenly, there is a moment in which you can choose. Before returning a sharp word, pause beside me and gather your heart. Your lips have the capacity to carry love too.
A wise person does not let an insult give anger control of the whole response. I want you to speak honestly about what matters to you without choosing words for the purpose of hurting someone else.
Rest this evening so that kind words can find a place in your own heart. Ask me if you need wisdom to speak calmly. As your Father, I want you to grow into someone whose honesty and gentleness belong together.
With all my love,
Your Father
Proverbs 12:16
WEB16A fool shows his annoyance the same day, but one who overlooks an insult is prudent.
A short reflection
Proverbs contrasts the fool who immediately displays anger with the prudent person who overlooks an insult, commending restraint in the first rush of anger.
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